Under the impact of crime or trauma, options may
seem very limited. "I have to drop out of school," "There's no way
out," "I'm ruined" are examples of the kinds of shut-down thinking which
can happen to even the most resourceful person under these circumstances.
One of the advocate's primary tasks is to explore
carefully and fully with the victim all the options available to him or her. With as full
a range of options as possible, most clients are able to make informed choices which
coincide with their interests.
Looking at options may take only a few minutes or it
could take several days or weeks, depending on the individual situation. The important
fact to remember is that there are usually many more options than the individual can
enumerate when he or she is in crisis. Building a bank of options is one of advocacy's
critical aspects.
But choosing the options that feel right is
always the client's prerogative.