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                                                      The Advocacy Program 

 

 

buttonASSAULT An "assault" is an intentional, unlawful threat by word or act to do violence to the person of another, coupled with apparent ability to do so and in doing some act which creates a well-founded fear in such other person that such violence is imminent.

 

Jamal attended the opening of a new movie. The theater was crowded and, as luck would have it, the people sitting behind Jamal talked and whispered continuously during the beginning of the movie. Jamal turned around and asked them to be quiet. One of the men told him to shut up and mind his own business. They continued to talk and Jamal once again asked them to be quiet and mentioned that he would get the manager if they didn't quiet down. The man leaned forward and formed a fist with one hand and struck it against the palm of his other hand, saying, "This will shut you up."

 

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buttonAGGRAVATED ASSAULT An "aggravated assault" is an assault with a deadly weapon without intent to kill or with an intent to commit a felony.

 

 

Jim attended a casual party at the home of one of his friends from work. During the evening, one guest, Alex, grew more and more boisterous and offensive. As Jim walked across the room to the buffet, he accidentally bumped Alex's foot. Alex jumped up and started screaming at Jim. When Jim apologized, Alex grabbed his dinner knife, pointed it at Jim and screamed, "If you don't leave right now, I'll cut you."

 

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buttonBATTERY A person commits a battery if he/she actually and intentionally touches or strikes another person against the will of the other, or intentionally causes bodily harm to an individual.

 

Jennie and Mark have been hanging out together since the second month of the school year. They quickly became known as a "couple." One night while they were walking home from a movie they began to argue. Jennie had been taught to de-escalate tense situations by lowering her voice, moving away from the angry individual, and talking about the aggressor’s options. So as the argument grew more heated, she tried to do all these things in turn. Mark was having none of it. He took hold of Jennie’s arm, and when she tried to turn away, he grabbed her other arm and turned her back to face him. "Let me go!" Jennie asserted. "Don’t you dare walk away from me!" he replied, still holding on to her arms.

 

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buttonAGGRAVATED BATTERY A person commits aggravated battery who, in committing a battery intentionally or knowingly causes great bodily harm, permanent disability, or permanent disfigurement; or uses a deadly weapon. A person commits aggravated battery if the person who was the victim of the battery was pregnant at the time of the offense and the offender knew or should have known that the victim was pregnant.

 

Joe lived in a single apartment, adjacent to a unit shared by two other men. Soon after the men moved in, they began to harass Joe. Often they were standing in the hallway outside the apartments when he came home at night, drinking beer and accosting people in the parking lot or passing by. But they singled Joe out for special treatment. They called him names, asked him rude questions, and occasionally blocked entry to his apartment. Joe felt he had been targeted because he lived alone and became increasingly worried about these encounters.

One night he came home and was relieved to see that the men were not in sight. But as he approached his door, they came out of their apartment, where they had clearly been waiting for him. When Joe tried to push past them toward his door, one man held him while the other punched him in the face, then kicked him in the stomach. Joe fell to the ground, whereupon both men continued to kick him. When the attack ended and the police arrived, Joe was curled up on the ground. He had a broken nose, broken ribs and a severe concussion.

 

 

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buttonCHILDHOOD VICTIMIZATION Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse by a parent, caretaker or stranger.

 

Jake was the eldest of three boys, the child of a wealthy but eccentric couple. Jake’s mother was frequently ill during his childhood, and when Jake was 11, his mother died. His father announced that Jake would be responsible for raising his brothers, ages 8 and 5. Jake’s father told him bluntly that he couldn’t cope with the pressures of child-rearing and instructed Jake never to ask his father for anything.

Jake did the best he could. His father was frequently away, however, and would allow no one to "interfere" in the household business. Jake threw himself into the task of nurturing and supporting two small grieving boys. His mother’s sister tried to help Jake, but was ordered to "keep her distance" by Jake’s father.

Despite growing up in a wealthy household, Jake and his brothers were frequently hungry and cold. One particularly cold winter he asked his father for some extra blankets and received a whipping for breaking the rule against "asking." He learned early that it was risky to have needs, and riskier to express them.

Jake loved his brothers and did all he could to "bring them up." But by the time they reached adolescence, they became restless with his authority, then actively rebellious. When his youngest brother Ned turned twelve, he was sent home from school for "back-talking" a teacher. When Jake’s father learned of the event, both Jake and the youngest brother received whippings and were instructed to sleep on the floor without blankets. The next morning, Jake left home, deciding that life on the street was less bleak than life in the mansion.

 

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buttonDATING ABUSE/VIOLENCE Emotional, verbal, physical and/or sexual abuse by an intimate partner, or boy/girl friend or same sex partner.

 

Janie and Perry had been dating for several months. Perry had developed an exclusive attitude toward the relationship, which Janie shared. Janie, however, felt that she should be able to be with her friends from time to time. Perry insisted that their romantic relationship should always come first.

One evening Perry stopped by Janie’s room, only to be told by her roommate that Janie was in the library, studying for a lab exam with her lab partner, Bill. Enraged, Perry strode into the library and threatened to make a scene unless Janie stepped outside with him to talk. Annoyed but frightened, Janie complied.

Once outside, Perry accused Janie of coming on to Bill. Her denials fell on deaf ears. As Janie turned to walk back in the library, Perry shoved her from behind, pushing her into the brick wall. He then grabbed her by the hair and pulled her down to her knees, before running off in a rage.

 

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buttonDOMESTIC VIOLENCE/SPOUSE ABUSE "Domestic violence" means any assault, aggravated assault, battery, aggravated battery, sexual assault, sexual battery, stalking, aggravated stalking, or any criminal offense resulting in physical injury or death of one family or household member by another who is or was residing in the same single dwelling unit. "Family or household member" means spouses, former spouses, persons related by blood or marriage, persons who are presently residing together as if a family or who have resided together in the past as if a family, and persons who have a child in common regardless of whether they have been married or have resided together at any time.

 

Carla and Gerome had lived together for six months. During the course of that time, they had argued frequently over minor topics. Gerome had a hot temper and Carla usually tried to avoid topics she knew would cause a reaction in Gerome. One night they went out to dinner and Gerome criticized her dress which he said was too short. He accused her of cheating on him and eventually became so enraged the restaurant owner told him to leave. As they drove home, his anger seemed to escalate and he continued to direct his anger at Carla who shrank into the corner of the car. This angered Gerome even more and he began cursing at Carla, telling her all this was her fault, that she had humiliated him in public and deserved to be punished. He drove faster and swerved the car toward the edge of the pavement several times, laughing when Carla screamed. Gerome headed toward the causeway and told Carla he was going to throw her off a bridge. When she began crying and begging him to stop, he hit her in the face.

 

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buttonEMOTIONAL ABUSE A form of non-physical control through intimidation, threats, demeaning language and control of the relationship which causes the victim to live in fear of reprisal.

 

Mandy had been a bright, precocious, intelligent child. When she was young and "cute," her parents seemed to love showing her off. But, as she matured and developed into an adolescent, her parents changed --- especially her mother. They began to criticize her constantly, comparing her looks, her grades, and her social behavior to selected peers. They humiliated her in front of others, never failing to "bring her down a notch." If Mandy ever disagreed with them or stood up for herself, she was told that she had an "attitude", that she would never amount to anything and that she didn’t have the slightest understanding of how the world operated.

Mandy was delighted to have her first boyfriend at age 16. Luke was handsome, intelligent and charming. He listened to her attentively in the first months of their relationship and she learned to confide in him and to lean on his strength. She felt there was nothing she would not do for him. So Mandy could hardly believe it when Luke began to do the same things her parents had done. He began to take issue with little things about her: what clothing she wore, what colors did and did not become her, how she arranged her hair. Eventually, Luke began to interrupt her when she was speaking, to put down her opinions, and to ask why she couldn’t "shape up." Instead of feeling joy in Luke’s presence, Mandy began to feel ashamed. And, the more ashamed she felt, the more emotionally abusive Luke became…

 

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buttonHATE CRIMES Any crime committed based upon a person's ethnicity, sexual orientation, spiritual beliefs and/or gender.

 

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buttonMURDER: Services are available to surviving family, friends and significant others of murder victims.

 

 

 

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buttonOBSCENE OR HARASSING TELEPHONE CALLS Whoever makes a telephone call to a location at which the person receiving the call has a reasonable expectation of privacy, during such call makes any comment, request, suggestion, or proposal which is obscene, lewd, lascivious, filthy, vulgar, or indecent, and by such call or such language intend to offend, annoy, abuse, threaten, or harass any person at the called number; or makes a telephone call, whether or not conversation ensues, without disclosing his/her identity and with intent to annoy, abuse, threaten, or harass any person at the called number; or makes or causes the telephone of another repeatedly or continuously to ring with intent to harass any person at the called number; or makes repeated telephone calls, during which conversation ensues, solely to harass any person at the called number. Whoever knowingly permits any telephone under his/her control to be used for any purpose prohibited by this section shall be guilty of a misdemeanor of the second degree.

 

Mary lived off campus, but attended classes on campus. Shortly after moving into her apartment, she began receiving phone calls. Sometimes the caller would hang up, other times he would breathe or laugh or call her names. When she returned to her apartment after work or class, her answering machine would have dozens of messages from her anonymous caller and she found it necessary to unplug her bedroom phone in order to get any sleep at night.

 

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buttonROBBERY "Robbery" means the taking of money or other property which may be the subject of larceny from the person or custody of another, with intent to either permanently or temporarily deprive the person or the owner of the money or other property, when in the course of the taking there is the use of force, violence, assault, or putting in fear.

 

Dan stopped at the ATM on the way home from his job off campus. Once he had his money in hand, a large man dressed in black clothes with a ski mask on, rushed up to him and grabbed the money out of his hands.

 

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buttonSEXUAL BATTERY "Sexual battery" means oral, anal, or vaginal penetration by or union with the sexual organ of another or the anal or vaginal penetration of another by any other object; however, sexual battery does not include acts done for bona fide medical purposes.

"Consent" means intelligent, knowing, and voluntary consent and does not include coerced submission. "Consent" shall not be deemed or construed to mean the failure by the alleged victim to offer physical resistance to the offender.

 

Shannon and a group of friends went out to a club off campus. During the evening, several young men joined the group and one of them, Dave, bought Shannon a drink and danced with her. Later he suggested that they leave the group and go to another club. She agreed. Several hours later, Dave offered to take Shannon home, but wanted to stop at his place first to check on his sick dog. When they got to the apartment, Dave offered her another drink and showed her around the apartment. When they reached the bedroom, he pushed her down on the bed and forced himself on her.

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buttonSEXUAL VIOLENCE Forced, coerced or unwanted sexual activity that may occur between friends, strangers, dates, family members or acquaintances.

 

 

Tammy spent Spring break with her best friend, Sandra, at her parents' home in Naples. Her parents and brother seemed friendly and welcomed her into their home. One day, Tammy and Sandra were lounging by the pool. It was very hot and Tammy decided to go into the kitchen to fix cold drinks.

While she was preparing the drinks, Sandra's father entered the kitchen and began fixing a sandwich while chatting with Tammy. He complimented her on her bathing suit and asked her if she was enjoying the pool. As they chatted, they moved around the kitchen, working side by side. When Tammy opened a cabinet and stretched up to get a tray she was surprised to feel Mr. Thomkin's arms around her body. His hands grabbed her breasts and squeezed them. She immediately twisted away and when she did, he kissed her on the mouth and pulled her close to his body. 

 

 

 

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buttonSEXUAL MISCONDUCT Indecent exposure, obscene phone calls and voyeurism.

 

Jessica lived in a co-ed dorm and enjoyed the family feeling of having lots of 'brothers and sisters' around. Usually she felt safe and unthreatened. One night while doing her laundry, a male resident came into the laundry room and began loading his clothes into the washer. Jessica sat in a corner reading a magazine and took little notice of the other student. She glanced up when he walked past her to the detergent dispenser wearing boxer shorts. When he returned, he stopped in front of her and removed his underwear.

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buttonSTALKING Any person who willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows or harasses another person commits the offense of stalking.

 

 

April met Joe in class. He seemed friendly and after a few weeks asked her out. She was seeing someone else at the time and declined. Joe continued to talk to her and asked her out a couple more times. Finally, April told Joe she really wasn't interested in going out with him, because she had a boyfriend back home.

April began receiving several email messages from Joe, every day. She found a note from him which had been slipped under her dorm room door. Joe started showing up in places April spent time after class. He didn't talk to her, but seemed to almost follow her around.

 

Finally, April sent him an email asking him to stop following her and sending her messages. Joe called her and screamed at her that he had as much right to go places on campus as she did. The calls and messages continued.

 

 

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buttonAGGRAVATED STALKING Any person who willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows or harasses another person, and makes a credible threat with the intent to place that person in reasonable fear of death or bodily injury, commits the offense of aggravated stalking.

 

April met Joe in class. He seemed friendly and after a few weeks asked her out. She was seeing someone else at the time and declined. Joe continued to talk to her and asked her out a couple more times. Finally, April told Joe she really wasn't interested in going out with him, because she had a boyfriend back home.

April began receiving several email messages from Joe, every day. She found a note from him which had been slipped under her dorm room door. Joe started showing up in places April spent time after class. He didn't talk to her, but seemed to almost follow her around.

Finally, April sent him an email asking him to stop following her and sending her messages. Joe called her and screamed at her that he had as much right to go places on campus as she did. The calls and messages continued.

In desperation, April told Joe that if he didn’t stop bothering her she would report it to the police. His messages began including threats to 'make her sorry' and 'show her she couldn't treat him this way' . He told her she better watch her back, that she couldn't hide from him and he would get her when she least expected it.

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buttonSEXUAL HARASSMENT Sexual conduct or behavior that creates an intimidating, hostile or offensive working or educational environment.

 

 

Sam took a summer job with a temp agency working on websites for a local business. He enjoyed the work and needed the money. After a week on the job, his female supervisor, Miss Agatha, who had seemed very friendly from the start, began joking with him throughout the day. She asked him about his love life, if he was dating any hot chicks and what kind of woman he liked. At first Sam thought this was strange, but tolerated the comments and questions with good humor. Miss Agatha would often compliment Sam on his choice of clothes, his hair, and even his muscular physique. Sam began to feel uncomfortable  and started avoiding her.

One day Miss Agatha asked Sam to lunch and he declined, saying he had already made plans. Miss Agatha seemed a little angry, but said nothing. The next day, Miss Agatha sought Sam out early in the day and told him she expected him to make time to go to lunch with her that day. She seemed very pleasant but when Sam tried to decline, she told him that he should be glad his supervisor liked him. Sam went to lunch with her, even though he felt trapped into going.

 

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buttonA SECONDARY VICTIM is any person who may not have experienced a violent crime, abuse or trauma directly, but who has been affected by a loved one's experience of such. These individuals are also referred to as 'affected others.' The family, friends and lovers of rape victims are examples of secondary victims. Their needs for support and encouragement are often very strong.

It is vital that secondary victims attempt to get their needs met appropriately, preferably from an uninvolved party, in order that this burden not fall on the victim.

 

Jake and Laura had been engaged for a year. During the month before their wedding date, Laura was robbed and raped at gunpoint by a stranger. Jake wanted to continue with their wedding plans. He loved Laura as much as ever, and felt that the sooner they formalized their commitment, the faster Laura would recover from her traumatic experience. Besides, all the plans for the wedding were in place, deposits had been paid, and Jake’s brother, who was to be his best man, was leaving soon after the wedding to begin a new job out of the country.

Laura, however, wanted to delay the wedding. She managed to go to her job, but she wanted to go directly home after work and had no interest in going out at night. She was very distant with Jake, and her former affectionate behavior was distinctly altered. Jake eventually realized that she never reached out to him and only responded to his expressions of concern when necessary. It was almost as if they had never been in love.

Jake became alternately despairing and angry about the situation. He found himself wanting to tell Laura to "just snap out of it," but he knew that wouldn’t help and would certainly make the situation worse. But Jake felt that his life had been altered forever. He became withdrawn, and began to have trouble eating and sleeping. He began to wonder if he and Laura shouldn’t just break the relationship off altogether.

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